Ok by this I mean... females say they have a problem ie the car don't work...
Their girlie mates hug and give sympathy etc , sit there and listen... but the car is still broke...
A gay would get a tool kit, get her to help, fix the car, make her watch so she sees how to fix it, car owrking, next time she can fix it...
Thats the crux of it...
Ie teen girl, hates self, balemic, cuts self etc...
counceller listens yak yak Uterly point less.
Joey here would take her down beauty r Us, sort the hair, loose the glasses, and the braces. Get laser eye surgery so no more contacts, fix the allergy., manicure, pedicure, maybe palstic surgery... get her looking buff. Then get clothing coaches that will work with her personality to get her sexuy confident clothes... ie rock chick, surfer babe, biker chick, hip hop chick, goth, trendy, etc.
Prob sexy uniforms too... nurse cheerleader etc...
Pole dance lessons, exotic dancer lessons, how to charm boys lessons
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what's the question????
Women counselors are just that - counselors. They dont' get out there and fix your car anymore that a man counsleor. Their job is to sit and talk to you and help give you the confidence to fix your own car!
I've known both women and men counselors. If you find a counselor you don't like, try another. You can't get along with everyone. It has nothing to do with male or female. I have met female counselors and male counselors that I don't like.
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Why do you keep asking the same question?
You don't understand what counselling is; you are confusing sympathy and supportive behaviour (a social behaviour) with counselling. It doesn't matter how many times you ask this question, the answer is the same.
Plus girls are still brought up to be 'nice', unassertive and impractical.
I think you misunderstand, there's a difference between counselling and sympathy. Counselling is not just about listening and agreeing 'yeah, isn't it terrible'.
Plus there are different types of counselling, all demand some degree of input from the client, not just a long list of moans and grumbles. Counselling is a tool to develop insight and self awareness to deal with emotional problems, once those are understood you can also learn practical skills.
You are saying you can either have one or the other; and that girls have emotions and boys have practical skills; you can have one or the other. Its just garbage.
If you want to make a difference, teach your daughters to be practical.
Actually no. A counselor does allow you to talk about your problems. It is also comforting that unlike those we meet in the general community, these people are prohibited from discussing what you tell them by law. So it may be easier to talk to them then your buddy next door. Also they give more educated advice than are peers who have not studied this field. They help to teach coping skills, anger management skills, relaxation ....the list goes on and on. Also if there is a more serious mental illness involved they know how to identify these illnesses. Counseling can be very beneficial on many levels. It will only work if you go in open minded though. You will only get out what you put in. I think a lot of men who think they are too "macho" or "manly" to at least attempt counseling are the real cowards!
Forget him ladies, he's making a lot of fuss but saying nothing; and its coming from the wrong hole in his body!
i have no idea what you are talking about
Counceller can do something if anf only if full details are disclosed.Full disclosure is necessary to solve any problem.If the listener(patient)doesnot understand,nothing can be done.
Try to awaken from your nightmare, Your sick!
Have something better .
